Are you feeling lonely? ๐Ÿ’

The real question behind is: Are we really lonely or alone? Who knows ? ๐Ÿ™‡

When you already have more than 30 years, everyone think that we are having tons of fun or crying in our bed because we are alone ๐Ÿ˜ฑ #lmfao

Well, I have news for you Im not in my bed crying and neither having fun like Y.O.L.O but for real after covid Im seriously thinking living my life like YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE ๐Ÿ˜ #justkiddingmum. I already have more than 30 and my days are normal,some days are damn good and others lil bad ๐Ÿ™… Honestly I love my own space, thanks God I’m someone who can survive alone in the North Pole without miss talk with someone #IJustNeedWifi and I can control the world from there ๐Ÿ˜œ – but – I know people who need be surrounded by people otherwise feel down like a plant without sun, so I can say that’s my superpower lol -but – Are we really alone? What means feel alone or lonely? ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Why I feel alone? ๐Ÿ˜“

Once upon a time I made the same question and my favorite writer from Mรฉxico answer me this:

Feel alone (with no self love) is when you are in a concert with hundreds of people around you but you feel alone and empty, like if the world isn’t seeing you – and – if we talk about this #IsntAboutTheWorld is about YOU, the world is just OUR own mirror ๐Ÿ˜ณ M -E A- N -S the world isn’t ignoring you babe, YOU are ignoring yourself ๐Ÿ’ฃ #YeahBoom !! But I have good news, you are not alone in this, there are billions people around the world who feel like this and just because they have time for everything and everyone but except for THEMSELVES ๐Ÿ˜ž Humans are evil I know but have fear of ourselves, like really duh ๐Ÿ˜’ come on #FuckMedia say thanks to them, the first thing you see when you wake up and see news is HUMANS ARE BAD, be afraid of your neighbor because can rape you, kill you, etc.

You all know the song “๐ŸŽถ And Im so lonely …. tune mere jaana ๐ŸŽถ ” if you don’t know the song is because you are not desi ๐Ÿ˜œ the point is that feel lonely is when the person you love most don’t love you back ๐Ÿ’” we can feel broken, like incomplete without the other person but AGAIN …. Is really the other person who dont love us back? or is ourselves? – everytime – I found myself crying because someone ๐Ÿ˜’ doesn’t love me back I found out that I lost myself, that my self love was in Bali enjoying some drinks and I wasnt with me ๐Ÿ˜ž and I realize that wasn’t the other person who dont love me back, was ME ๐Ÿ˜ณ sad right? Now you know this, change it and start LOVE YOURSELF ๐Ÿ’“ when we really start enjoy our own company there isn’t a place for LONELINESS ๐Ÿ˜ Who knows and loneliness and you can become bff ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ

How I can love myself? ๐Ÿ˜

I dont have the exactly recipe for solve this problem, but I can help with some questions. Let’s make a list ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • What do you think about yourself?
  • ๐Ÿ‘† Is your own opinion or someone told you that ๐Ÿ˜’ #imgonnakickhim/her
  • Your friends/parents/pets make you feel like rockstar or like ๐Ÿ’ฉ?
  • How much attention you need for feel “loved”?
  • Are you ok being alone or you need constantly people around you?
  • What’s your biggest fear?
  • You need someone for feel happy?
  • How do you talk with yourself ๐Ÿ’“ ? like #AreYouStupid? or #HeyCutiePie ๐Ÿ˜‰
  • Here something can help you also ๐Ÿ‘‡

Love you more day by day, you are awesome xoxo !