Are you feeling lonely? πŸ’

The real question behind is: Are we really lonely or alone? Who knows ? πŸ™‡

When you already have more than 30 years, everyone think that we are having tons of fun or crying in our bed because we are alone 😱 #lmfao

Well, I have news for you Im not in my bed crying and neither having fun like Y.O.L.O but for real after covid Im seriously thinking living my life like YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE 😁 #justkiddingmum. I already have more than 30 and my days are normal,some days are damn good and others lil bad πŸ™… Honestly I love my own space, thanks God I’m someone who can survive alone in the North Pole without miss talk with someone #IJustNeedWifi and I can control the world from there 😜 – but – I know people who need be surrounded by people otherwise feel down like a plant without sun, so I can say that’s my superpower lol -but – Are we really alone? What means feel alone or lonely? 😳

Why I feel alone? πŸ˜“

Once upon a time I made the same question and my favorite writer from MΓ©xico answer me this:

Feel alone (with no self love) is when you are in a concert with hundreds of people around you but you feel alone and empty, like if the world isn’t seeing you – and – if we talk about this #IsntAboutTheWorld is about YOU, the world is just OUR own mirror 😳 M -E A- N -S the world isn’t ignoring you babe, YOU are ignoring yourself πŸ’£ #YeahBoom !! But I have good news, you are not alone in this, there are billions people around the world who feel like this and just because they have time for everything and everyone but except for THEMSELVES 😞 Humans are evil I know but have fear of ourselves, like really duh πŸ˜’ come on #FuckMedia say thanks to them, the first thing you see when you wake up and see news is HUMANS ARE BAD, be afraid of your neighbor because can rape you, kill you, etc.

You all know the song “🎢 And Im so lonely …. tune mere jaana 🎢 ” if you don’t know the song is because you are not desi 😜 the point is that feel lonely is when the person you love most don’t love you back πŸ’” we can feel broken, like incomplete without the other person but AGAIN …. Is really the other person who dont love us back? or is ourselves? – everytime – I found myself crying because someone πŸ˜’ doesn’t love me back I found out that I lost myself, that my self love was in Bali enjoying some drinks and I wasnt with me 😞 and I realize that wasn’t the other person who dont love me back, was ME 😳 sad right? Now you know this, change it and start LOVE YOURSELF πŸ’“ when we really start enjoy our own company there isn’t a place for LONELINESS 😁 Who knows and loneliness and you can become bff πŸ‘―πŸ‘―

How I can love myself? 😍

I dont have the exactly recipe for solve this problem, but I can help with some questions. Let’s make a list πŸ˜‰

  • What do you think about yourself?
  • πŸ‘† Is your own opinion or someone told you that πŸ˜’ #imgonnakickhim/her
  • Your friends/parents/pets make you feel like rockstar or like πŸ’©?
  • How much attention you need for feel “loved”?
  • Are you ok being alone or you need constantly people around you?
  • What’s your biggest fear?
  • You need someone for feel happy?
  • How do you talk with yourself πŸ’“ ? like #AreYouStupid? or #HeyCutiePie πŸ˜‰
  • Here something can help you also πŸ‘‡

Love you more day by day, you are awesome xoxo !